On getting married

Dear Newly Weds,

Welcome to the “Married” World. It can be as wondrous as both of you want it to be. There are no limits to the span of human spirits. This voyage of mutual discovery is an adventure of `FACT’

· Friendship with forgiveness and forbearance
· Affection with acceptance
· Companionship with contentment
· Tenderness with finesse of tactile touch
On the way let “love” blossom. Love is only
“Understanding of each others values”
Learn to gather each day with gratitude for the good things both of you have, amidst the security of your families, their care and concern for your well being. You have now become a son & daughter for your in-laws. Become the bridge of their understanding. Heed their advice whilst listening to your inner voice. Adjusting and adapting to the larger family, calls for tact and diplomacy.


The “Union by Wedlock” has certain guidelines of simple common sense.
· The bedroom is the sanctum – sanctorum – never let your inner privacy be invaded
· The bed is the altar of your marriage – Each day begins and ends there. Life in essence revolves round it.
· Never go to bed angry. Make up always and each time. Learning to laugh, forgive and forget will bring you happiness in ways that both of you can’t imagine.
· “Freshness” for each other should become part of your lifestyle. Dressing well, looking nice and being gracious is easily affordable and achievable. In short never take each other for granted.
· There are bound to be some down days. Face them with courage and calmness. Running away never does anyone good. Mutual support, sacrifice and letting go, are the keys to your kingdom.
· Remember both of you are what you are! Togetherness is tethered in reaching out to the other while remaining yourself.


May you both live life in all its fullness. May the `Line’ be carried forward with humility, grace, gratitude, in recognition of your innate talents and strengths.

May God bless you both, with prosperity in tranquility and good health, in the cocoon of your marriage.
barry